Former Australian player
Jelena Dokic has a story that
not many have shown the courage to share in the world of tennis. The 42-year-old received abuse from her father during her playing days, and because of that, suffered from mental health issues.
Dokic had an impressive career at the highest level. She
registered her highest ranking, number four in the world, in 2002 and overall
won six titles in her career. However, Dokic’s defining moment of her career came when she released the book titled ‘Unbreakable’. The book detailed her
struggle in the playing days where her father constantly abused her. Her
relationship was so strained with her father that when he passed away earlier
this year in May, Dokic had very few words to explain her feelings for the man
who caused her a lot of trouble in her life.
“My father passed away in the late hours on 16.05.2025,”
she wrote in response to the news of her father passing away in a post on social media. “As you know my relationship with my father has been difficult and
painful with a lot of history. Despite everything and no matter how hard,
difficult and in the last 10 years even non-existent our relationship and
communication was, it is never easy losing a parent and a father even one you
are estranged from. The loss of an estranged parent comes with a difficult and
complicated grief. It’s an end of a chapter and life as I know it.”
In 2024, a documentary was made based on what Dokic revealed
in the books. On Sunday, Dokic won the Logie Awards for the best Best Factual
or Documentary Program. The news came as a big surprise for the 2000 Wimbledon semifinalist, who broke down in tears while giving a speech, lengthier than the allotted time. While explaining her feelings, Dokic stated that she was in ‘complete
shock’.
Complete shock
“I know you said 30 seconds but I will need at least 30
to gather myself,” said Dokic. “I’m actually in shock. I didn’t think this was
possible and I didn’t have a speech prepared. I want to say a massive thank you
to every single person who voted, not just the fans, but the industry. And not
because of me. But because the hard stories and the difficult topics need to be
told to create awareness. This is something that we did not even talk about 10
years ago. Now we have it in books and on screen. This is not about winning.
This is about a win for victims and survivors, especially of domestic violence
and mental health. To every kid and person out there, I will say to every
single girl and woman out there, never allow anyone to take your worth or
happiness or smile away. Believe in your goals and dreams. I am standing here
as someone who literally had that dream. I believed in it. I didn’t give up on
it. If I can do it you can do it too.”
Dokic then went on to praise her Channel 9 co-host, Todd
Woodbridge, and highlighted that the 54-year-old was the one who motivated her
to become a tennis commentator, at a time when Dokic herself was not sure whether
she was good enough to do that at the highest level.
“Lastly
Todd Woodbridge, you’re my person,” said emotional
Dokic. “I say that, and this makes me cry so much, because when I sat down at
that table with you 11 years ago when I retired and you said to me that I can
be a commentator and bring my story to life, I looked at you and I said to you
“I don’t know who you are talking about but you are not talking about me. I was
a person who couldn’t string two sentences together and had no skills. You
believed in me professionally. I hope everyone finds a Todd like I did.”